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TheManRegistry on The Great Debate: DJ or Band

by Chris Easter of The Man Registry

Photography by The Wiebners - Joel and Rita Wiebner - see more at www.thewiebners.com

Boxers or briefs? Fries or chips? Band or DJ? These are some of life’s toughest debates. For our purposes here, we’ll be discussing the question of whether to hire a band or a DJ for your wedding reception entertainment.
The reception music and dance floor atmosphere can often make or break a wedding reception. Of course, the bride and groom will enjoy themselves no matter what. However, your guests may not be as easy to please. If you want to see your friends and family out on the dance floor instead of heading for the door right after dinner, you’ll want to carefully weigh the pros and cons of booking a band vs. a DJ.
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Posted by Chris Easter of The Man RegistryJanuary 2, 2009
A Wedding Surprise!

by Sydney Barbara Metrick of Chicken Soup Counseling

Photography by Whitebox Weddings- see more at www.whiteboxweddings.com

I came across a great wedding story in the newspaper that I want to share with you. A couple (names to be withheld) had a unique idea for what could be called a piggyback wedding. They chose a holiday when the people they cared about most would be gathering for a celebratory dinner. The home had been festively decorated, the guests were stylishly attired. Everyone was in good spirits.
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Posted by Sydney Barbara Metrick of Chicken Soup CounselingDecember 31, 2008
Setting the Scene with a Wedding Program

by Mary of mywedding.com

Photography by The Wiebners - Joel and Rita Wiebner - see more at www.thewiebners.com
I have one regret about my wedding day, besides the fact that my dress fell down at the altar (thank goodness for flesh colored undergarments): That I decided that I could do without wedding programs. Well, that our guests could do without the programs. I don’t really know what I was thinking, but I refused to budge on the issue. At the time I used some excuse about not wanting to use up all that paper for such a temporary purpose, but in reality I just did not want to try and sort out all of my (now) husband’s half-ex-step familial relations (it’s complicated, sprawling and inter-continental), in a way that would make sense in print. In retrospect, this was a big mistake. There is a time and a place to use paper that you know will be left behind, forgotten under chairs and on reception tables (not by everyone; some people like Dear Old Granny will cherish it as a keepsake), and this is it. The program sets the tone for your ceremony, and make guests feel involved and informed. If you’re unsure about where to begin and what to include in your wedding program, here are a few tips to get you going:
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Posted by Mary of mywedding.comDecember 31, 2008
A Simple Engagement Timeline for 2009!

by Lisa Nelson of Elegant Event Design

A Bryan Photography - see more at www.abryanphoto.com

The engagement timelines (times when things should be completed by) out there in the world are long and complicated. I thought I would give just an overview of what needs to be done during the last 6 months or so. I am just focusing on the major points. Just think of this as a list that’s small enough to fit inside your wallet.
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Posted by Lisa Nelson of Elegant Event DesignDecember 30, 2008
Grooms Guide to Surviving Marriage Prep Class

by Chris Easter of The Man Registry

Photography by Whitebox Weddings- see more at www.whiteboxweddings.com

Love, children, family and marital duties - if you're planning on being married in a church, these are some issues you’ll most likely discuss in a marriage preparation class. Some grooms may cringe at the thought of spending a Saturday or Sunday afternoon discussing and learning about marriage (When you know-it-all, already, right?) But if you take the classes seriously, there’s actually a lot of good information you can get out of them. Consider this article your primer for marriage prep.
Men, class is in session.
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Posted by Chris Easter of The Man RegistryDecember 19, 2008
Traditional Romantic Gesture - Asking for Her Hand in Marriage

by Chris Easter of The Man Registry

Photography by Anna Kuperberg - see more at www.kuperberg.com

It’s something that every traditionalist will tell you is a requirement for the engagement - asking the bride’s parents for permission for their daughter’s hand in marriage. Many will tell you that it’s not necessary in today’s modern world - but for those who do still believe in the old world courtesies – it is expected. And if overlook this step, it could be a rocky and uncomfortable start to your marriage.
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Posted by Chris Easter of The Man RegistryDecember 11, 2008
Save-the-Date for the Big Day...the Big Game...or Both?

by Chris Easter of The Man Registry

Photography by Ritrato - see more at www.ritrato.com
We all love the traditions of autumn: bonfires, football, tailgating, and weddings. Yes, you read that correctly — weddings. We know it’s a tough pill for a lot of guys to swallow, but fall weddings are a very popular choice for brides. As Autmun closes up wedding season...twenty-seven percent of weddings take place in September, October and November. But, guys, we've totally got your best interest at heart. And as briefly mentioned, football is definitely a fall favorite! How to mix the two successfully? No worries! Here are some tips for making your fall wedding as football fan-friendly as possible.
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Posted by Chris Easter of The Man RegistryDecember 1, 2008
A Holiday Wedding!

by Sydney Barbara Metrick of Chicken Soup Counseling

Photography by Cameron Ingalls - see more at www.cameroningalls.com
The date you choose for your wedding is often fraught with significance. Some couples elect to marry on the anniversary of the day they met, or of their first date. Some go with whatever day is available at their preferred site. And there are some who schedule the wedding on a holiday.
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Posted by Sydney Barbara Metrick of Chicken Soup CounselingNovember 25, 2008
The Man Registry on Honeymoon Plans!

by Chris Easter of The Man Registry

Photography by Anna Kuperberg - see more at www.kuperberg.com

Wedding planning has consumed you for the past several months. You have spent endless nights going over details and arrangements. On more than one occasion you‘ve probably wondered if the stress will ever end. Well, you can breathe easy because it does. A week of relaxation awaits you after the big day.
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Posted by Chris Easter of The Man RegistryNovember 20, 2008
The Man Registry on Weekend Wedding Activites

by Chris Easter of The Man Registry

Photography by Whitebox Weddings- see more at www.whiteboxweddings.com
One of the great things about your wedding weekend will be seeing all of your friends and family. Obviously, you’ll probably have a hectic couple of days before the wedding, but it’s always nice to have an event scheduled outside of the wedding ceremony and wedding reception so you can visit with everyone. Here are a few suggestions for activities you can arrange for the weekend of your wedding.
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Posted by Chris Easter of The Man RegistryNovember 11, 2008